In this modern world where every adult is longing for relationships tell and teach your children that none of the boy is worth for them. The only things that anyone could do for them beyond limits are their own parents . If someone could bring you moon and stars, your parents would have brought that for you if world tours were that much easy so your parents would be the first to get you there. Visualizing the dramas and thinking of making your life Like that or the boy will fulfil your dreams is stupidity. They are themselves not aware of their future their career and if they are they would never been in relationships. The real relations are that you see around you in which you can see a wife crying because a husband is not the worth one who could value her or a normal but not that ideal one which is shown on the screen. So waiting for a boy and expecting from him to fulfil your dreams make yourself that thing that every boy could long for you. Be your hero.. erase that patriarchal power from your minds and make your self worth than anyone else. If your parents couldn’t get you anything, your boyfriend could never do that. All your wishes, demands and dreams could be fulfil by the only figure and hero that is your father. Your husband will only perform his duty by providing you with all the things of your needs, not your dreams. So instead of wasting your time by finding an ideal boyfriend to love you like Romeo, Ranjha or Majnu focus on your very own life to touch the glory of the skies. Be that apple which is on the top of the tree and every one opts for getting it. 🙂
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